I’ve been battling with my fear of public speaking for years; stuck in my foxhole, at war with myself. In no man's land, bombarded and besieged by a firestorm, a crossfire of negative thoughts. It’s like a time bomb. The longer the delay, the greater the damage. My head could explode at any moment. I need some guerrilla tactics.
My first speech was a dud. That came as a bombshell. My nerves have been shredded and pulverized. My self-esteem was torpedoed.
I want to join the ranks of confident speakers and be on the front line with them. I want to attack this problem head-on and from all flanks. But first I’m working on a cease-fire with myself. I’m going to marshal my resources, take aim, and fire.
My opening salvo will be to call in the troops and get some help.
If the war with public speaking is killing you – give us a call. There have been far too many casualties to date.
Public speaking need not be a war. It can be a struggle for sure, but every skill can be learned by hard work, a never say die attitude, and some expert guidance. The secret is to rise each time you fall. Don't be deterred by the flack of others. Stand up and return to the action at the first opportunity. Man has been given an indomitable spirit because we need it. Edison springs to mind. We often give up just before the breakthrough, and then all is lost. To set out on a journey of achievement and return home without a modicum of success is too hard to take. A little purpose, guidance, and hard work are all that is required.